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So, my best friend at school is a guy who I'll call M (For privacy reasons). He's freaking awesome, in all my classes, and we talk whenever we're allowed to.

...Well, this kid I'll call C (Again, privacy reasons) keeps going "FF2 and M sitting in a tree! K-I-S-S-I-N-G!" and other couple-related jokes.
The thing is.... We're just friends. Nothing more, nothing less. ....And this joke makes me uncomfortable.

I've tried explaining this, but C is always replying with stuff like "You just don't want anyone to know that you two love each other!", which makes me feel WORSE.

My others friends (Who are in all my classes, like M) are also in on this joke and do it ALL THE TIME, which means that when I'm at school.... I have pretty much no escape from it.

But... Today, C took it to a new extreme. AN INAPPROPRIATE EXTREME, FOR THAT MATTER.

C said and did a lot of stuff (I cannot repeat this because this is a child-friendly site and I don't want to get hit with the banhammer, thankyouverymuch), all of which were inappropriate jokes and such.

Our friends joined in on it, me and M got sick of it, M got security who told C to leave us alone, C didn't listen, and when we got to the room we all keep our stuff in, he did the worst one, which, again I won't be repeating.

All the others - Besides me, M, and the teacher - were laughing, M was pretty mad at C, and I was trying to use my jacket to hide (Which didn't work, but I didn't care).

I cannot describe with words how uncomfortable this made me.
My teacher said what C is doing is actually harassment.
I've tried to explain to the others how uncomfortable this makes me but, they are always like "Sheesh, FF2! Why can't you take a joke for once!!" or "Wow, FF2. You are WAY too sensitive. It's just a joke!!", but it's not a joke to me.

It's not funny.
I can't talk to my friend without them doing their stupid "joke", and making want to go dig a hole in the corner of the room and hide in it forever.

I'm so, so sick of this. And I cannot take the inappropriate level it's gotten too, but no matter what me and M do, it isn't working.

Part of me honestly wants to just stop interacting with M, since if interacting with him is going to cause THIS to happen, and make me beyond uncomfortable, I'm starting to question the point..

But then.... That wouldn't be fair, since this is honestly C's fault, and I know it shouldn't be stopping me from interacting with M.

But you know what? It's honestly starting to and I don't know what to do anymore, because I'm completely POWERLESS.

...I don't know what to do anymore- (I just needed to get that out)

Yeah this happens to me a lot with me and my crush. (I honestly like it cause ummmm yeah. And we both have just not denied it like people call him my bf and calls me his gf and he has not denied that he has one lately so ummmmm it is like really awkward. sry for the long thing once I start talking about what happens I sort of can't stop but anyway) Honestly if it happens again tell C that she and everyone else needs to stop. Tell her that is makes you uncomfortable and that you will tell your parents or the office or police (if it is reallllly bad).

So today in school my friend (I'm gonna call M) was talking to another friend of mine (I'm gonna call W ,who is also my crush) and W said something about not wanting a specific thing in the future and M said that W had me or something like that and it was really awkward cause when I asked them what happened they wouldn't answer and soon I figured out.

So, I went to a place to visit my brother who is currently stationed there in the marines. It's a great place and I'm supposed to be super happy! I haven't seen my brother in years and I was so excited when I saw him! But today, the first full day here, I realized that my relationship with my brother isn't the same. Instead of being the boy who was there to help me when I fell, play games with me, help me find all the Easter eggs before my other brothers, he's changed. Now he just yells and argues with me. We argue over the dumbest things. Like what to call the bed of the truck. And he is so sarcastic and it hurts. Our relationship was never this way and I feel like he'll think I'm weak if I tell him that I don't like arguing with him. Right now he's sitting in the middle row of the car, sleeping, while I'm in the back silently crying?? I know I'm probably being too emotional over this,, but my other brothers have never been like this to me. And it's just... So different and terrifying.