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Friends who have't added you back
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Posted: Sun, 09/08/2015 02:04 (8 Years ago)
THANK YOU FOR..UMM.. LOOKING 8) 8) 8) 8) :B and i am sorry if someone already suggested this i didn't see one
WELL IM SORRY THAT I DIDN'T KNOW YOU COULD USE CTRL F TO FIND SOMEONE
Posted: Sun, 09/08/2015 02:08 (8 Years ago)
No support
Posted: Sun, 09/08/2015 02:11 (8 Years ago)
Posted: Sun, 09/08/2015 02:12 (8 Years ago)
Posted: Sun, 09/08/2015 02:15 (8 Years ago)
Posted: Sun, 09/08/2015 02:20 (8 Years ago)
Oh my god this is so poorly written
No support at all
And that example is poorly done
Posted: Sun, 09/08/2015 02:21 (8 Years ago)
Posted: Sun, 09/08/2015 02:22 (8 Years ago)
Posted: Sun, 09/08/2015 02:24 (8 Years ago)
And what Queen said is 100% what I would have said if i'm awesome enough
Also, I don't really see the point of this. If someone doesn't want to add you just because you added them doesn't mean that you need to unfriend them. Maybe that person wants to be your friend but don't want to add you for their own reasons? If you want to add someone to your friendlist for feeds and to somehow 'befriend' them, it's fine. But don't expect them to friend you back just because you did so. Stranger danger. Talking a few times doesn't make you friends, it make you an acquaintance.
Posted: Sun, 09/08/2015 02:53 (8 Years ago)
Posted: Sun, 09/08/2015 04:00 (8 Years ago)
It sets up the stage for drama.
I've added 43 people who I talk to constantly, or whose feeds I like to say subscribed to.
596 people have added me.
Now, I'm assuming about half are active on PH.
With this feature, about 300 people would see I haven't friended them back (like, I'm not gonna friend you all, sorry, I like being able to find my friend's feeds and my notifications)
I wanna say about half will message me or be offended I haven't added them back.
And the drama will still be there. "WHY DIDN"T ____ ADD MEH? WHY DID ___ REMOVE ME???" People will be offended, despite not knowing the other person's reasons.
And I'd rather not get 150 palpads demanding i add someone back.
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Posted: Sun, 09/08/2015 13:03 (8 Years ago)
Posted: Sun, 09/08/2015 14:30 (8 Years ago)
No one is a bad person if they don't add back everyone who adds them. It just means they'd like to keep their friendlist with only... well, their friends, hence the name, or people's feeds they enjoy viewing.
Posted: Sun, 09/08/2015 20:50 (8 Years ago)
this was the thing that you thought of me specifically for?
I.. I'm honestly really offended right now.
Sorry you can't accept that I really don't want to add you?
Sorry you're salty?
And, no support. Reasons already stated.
Posted: Sun, 09/08/2015 21:53 (8 Years ago)
Second if you actually care about who added you back then you would look at which users added you and compare it to which users added you.
Posted: Sun, 09/08/2015 22:15 (8 Years ago)
I agree with the suggestion. Yes you can tell from the lists they have given to you, but it would be faster and simpler for a friends list of people who have added you back. I voted awhile ago on agreeing to this, but now I feel like I must comment. Right now I'm cleaning off my friends list of users who haven't added me back. Not because I feel salty about not being added(because there are plenty of people I haven't added back), but because I feel annoying or unwanted when commenting on users feed that seem like they only wanted their closest friends to comment on. I hope I explained my situation well enough for people to see my point of view. I think that a list or way to see who have added you back would be useful. I have large lists of friends I have added and friends who have added me. It's hard and takes a lot of time to go through it all.
Posted: Sun, 09/08/2015 23:52 (8 Years ago)
Make this clearer.
Posted: Mon, 10/08/2015 09:29 (8 Years ago)
Usually, when voicing opinions, it's hard to not sound rude and to not offend people. Especially when they are talking about suggestions or so. I do agree however that people just tend to speak rudely out of pure frustation due to some points' of people suggestion.
I'm sorry if what I said doesn't make sense whatsoever
I am slightly leaning to neutral, then. I don't have friends I would consider actual friends and I have less then 10 of them while I have like 200+ others added me.
Posted: Mon, 10/08/2015 10:08 (8 Years ago)
50 of these are on my friendlist and maybe a quarter of the rest aren't online anymore, I do not want 300 users PalPadding me with them asking if I could add them, or them asking why I haven't added them, this would end up in drama, then feeds about it, which causes even MORE drama, but with other users. This would basically be a huge disaster if it was implemented.
So no support.
Posted: Fri, 14/08/2015 13:55 (8 Years ago)
A lot of random people add me - and I never add them back because I don't want to add them back because I prefer to have only my good friends as friends on here.
One person found out that I didn't add them back a while ago and literally went bananas on me about how I am a rude and bad person for not adding them back.
If this was implemented.. I don't want to go through that same drama over and over just because I didn't add a bunch of people back.