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If you met your younger self one day what advice would you give to them to maybe help them or get them to avoid the same mistake. this will also help other people learn from you. when you make a post do not replay to the last and your post must start with "Dear Me,".


Dear Me, even though you will be picked on because of what you are, never give it up for a second because you will have awesome friends who love you for being you

Dear me, please don't gift back your puppy!! :'( stay with him all his life.. <3 and avoid bad girls in school.. That's all c':

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Dear Me,

I know its gonna be hard. Life isn't fair.
Even though you get a lot of stress ,please lean back and smile.
Don't take that to heart, don't hurt yourself.
Don't get hurt.
Just don't.


I freaking hate it that i lost a bit of my hearing ability because i stressed to much over loosing a friend and if i could, i'd hit myself back there! Music will never be the same.

Even when your going to lose a lot of friends...
Its gonna be alright, you'll meet a lot of cute and new friends.
Its ok to cry.
That's not weakness.
Its okay to let it out, tell someone.
Even if you think you're a weight on someone's shoulders.
They talked to you all the times, you have the right to let your problems out.
It's better. but don't tell to much people, just one is enough.
One you trust enough and you think will keep it.
same for others, take that to heart. Talk to someone if you need to
don't take that problems to yourself, don't keep them.
Even if you draw them,write them. Let them out.
It can damage your body, if you don't.
Trust me. As i said, you'll never be able to hear the music how you heard it before and that's quiet sad, because music is a good way to let all the feelings out.
And it could've been worse, it could've been your brain, your heart. Everything else.
Don't stress. Take a deep breath and let it out with a smile.


And definitely dont be lazy.
I swear to god, if you're going to be lazy, i'll come back again and kick you.
I'll send you to the moon and back with that kick of mine.
If i could, i'd go back in time and change the grades i had.
~w~ I'd do a better job, improve my drawing skills, improve in so much more things, write the book i wanted to write but destroyed every page later on....


Smile and do whatever you want... òwó

Oh, i'd change a lot of failures i did back there...
actually to much.



oh, and fear insects. Run when you see spiders, i mean it. RUN!
(gahahaa.)

Stop being shy. *grumbles*
And open up! It'll be lovely! P:


i think this post somehow ....kinda got a message for everyone who feels like it..?

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Dear me,

*names a bunch of stocks I should've bought*
Also, don't attach yourself to people. Even friends can turn on you. Etc.

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Dear me,
Try not to spend so much time online. There's so much else to do. Play outside, read, improve your drawing, anything. But don't lie around all day on the computer, it wont be wont be worth it.
I'm sure it'll give you a better future as I'm afraid I wont be able to unglue myself and actually do something now that I'm so used to spending my time on the internet.

Also when you get older it might seem like the world's crumbling around you but you'll have your friends to help you through it all. Sure, you might lose your cat and move away from your best friends. You'll think you'll lose a parent but don't worry, things'll look up, I promise.

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Dear me, NEVER LOOK AT CLOP if you do it will end up with yourself regretting it so very much...

Our mom is a smoker, and she drinks wine she leaves us and goes to our birth town she calls us the B word and says some nasty stuff also don't dwell on what happened for our first 4 years of life those years are HORRID forget the belt threat, forget the barbie dumpster incident, forget that little she demon, and forget that our father left us for Washington.


Uncle Stan dies in what 2013? we will NEVER get over it he was our father figure in life and now he is gonna die he won't even live to see our birthday


Even though the doctors say in what? 2010? maybe before then? even if they say i might need heart surgery again don't believe them YOU GET BETTER

Also don't get your hopes up we are gonna have horrid grades and we are math illiterate seriously we can't even master the multiplication tables yet so we will have bad grades but don't give up JUST YET do our work before it's too late

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Dear me, Think before you act and sometimes, its better not to fight back. Keep your friends' thoughts in mind and try to control your aggressiveness. Don't always be so abrasive and take in other people's words.

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Dear past me: Punch her harder.

I was a kinda lonely girl, with a single friend, neglected by the others.
She was my only friend and the one in with I relied, I always told her all the things, my worries, my passions, all.
And after all, that only friend changed when we entered a new school together (ít was a boarding school) and she started to mocking me to look cool in front of the other girls.
Everyone on the boarding school started to bullying me because "I was a loner weirdo", my friend only was my friend when we were alone in our room.
I got almost everyday toothpaste on my shoes, my clean clothes in the garden floor and my class utensils robbed, because I was the "weakest" for being alone.
It was a hell.
I was really annoyed with my friend, but I endured it because I thought she was my friend and the only one girl I knew there, all the other only bullied me.
But one day, she wanted to be even more popular.
She came to the computer room, when I was there, and started badmouthing me in front of the other people.
After more than 3 hours hearing her badmouthing me in front of others because she stated "Anya is so fu**ing childlish because she likes japanese cartoons", I reached my peek and punched her in the gut :3
After that, she tried to blame me and expel me from the school for that, but beacause I was always a peaceful and quiet girl, everyone stood against her (the ones who bullied me), protecting me, so the one expelled was her.
I got a new roommate and a lot of friends after that, people stopped bulling me and I was a happy girl during my school years.
The only thing I regret is the fact I didn't punch her harder.

sorry about spelling mistakes, english isn't my main language

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Dear me, don't be lazy. It's so easy not to do a great job when you can do decent with no real effort whatsoever. Don't give in to the temptation, you can do better. I know you can. Don't settle for good, try to achieve excellent, awesome even. You might not succeed but at least you won't have to regret not even trying. Have some faith in yourself!

Stand on your own two legs. You can do it on your own. However, don't make the mistake of forgetting your friends and family are there. You can talk to them. You can tell them if you're not alright. Asking for help is nothing to be ashamed of.

When it comes to friends, you need to take a moment to consider who your real friends are. Who you have things in common with. Who won't brush you aside. Who won't make you feel worthless. Who won't make you regret talking. The people that make you feel like there's nothing wrong with you are the ones you should spend time with. Less is sometimes better, quality over quantity.

And for the love of god, talk to him. You know who I mean. Tell him what's really going through your head. He might even hate you, though I know he's not that kind of a person, but the outcome can't be much worse than how things will turn out if you do nothing and simply push him away and clamp your mouth shut. You'll regret it if you don't open that mouth of yours even once.

For short: Put some effort in the things you do, know who your friends are and talk more. Let people in.

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Dear Me,

Live in the day. Don't stress so hard. Please myself don't think about your heart. Think about the positive. And do NOT get close to anyone... Anyone besides Tigie. Anyone else will bring heartbreak and pity.

And don't be submissive! You got the reputation of quiet because you didn't defend yourself, or you'll have to wait until 6th grade until people realize that you will not stand for it.

And lastly have more confidence... Try. You must. Or you will end up with people not respecting you.

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Dear me,

When you turn 14, mom is going to have seizures. Although you won't understand the cause, please, please don't push her away. I know you really want to because you are afraid of losing her but trust me, it's not a good choice. Also dad will try to make her seem like it's her fault but please don't blame her.

Let's try not to be so shy and anti-social. I know people can be mean but don't let that make you practically a mute. I know you love music and all but don't listen to it more than you listen to other people. Try to start conversations, it might seem hard but even a simple hello to other people is a nice start.

drop out of honors math while you still can, you will be having 2 hours of math homework every night otherwise

Finally, you're going to fall in love with your best friend. You're going to realize you are bisexual and you are going to feel like you don't belong anywhere. Your best friend is going to have boyfriends and you're going to have to go through the pain of watching someone else get to say cute lovey things while you stand there with your heart being ripped from your chest. But you will meet this really sweet boy online named Noah, he can be a pain but keep him because he knows what you're going through and will help you through tough times.

Overall, never give up dear. Life just gets harder, enjoy it while you're still young.<3

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Dear me,

It is not a good idea to tell a friend to pour water onto a gel candle that has been burning for a while for fun, even if they are bored out of their mind and want something exciting to look at. But if you do, tell them to take it outside first. Far outside, away from bushes.

If you don't want people to read something write a very lengthy version of it, otherwise try to make things as short as possible because most people you meet will have the attention span of a fish. In addition to that I now have years worth of evidence to prove to you that two thirds of people won't read everything written in a post on site blogs, so don't stress on needing to include everything when you are writing those. And put pictures. Pictures make people want to pay attention to it, no matter the length of the writing.

-insert the list of super bowl winners for the last 15 years so you can have fun pretending to be psychic when placing unofficial winner bets with family-

Most monster-based games you are commissioned to make images for will never make it to release because the heads of the staff team are inexperienced, and they were ultimately unable to come together to work as group with the same goals. Many of the leaders randomly decided to make a game together, but had conflicting ideas of how said game should work. The planning is eventually postponed as the leaders try to work it out, but they won't be able to settle on one thing. Sometimes it is because they are trying to work on too many things at once, other times it is because all of the leaders feel that their plan is superior to everyone else's and disagreements perpetuate. The game progress will stagnate indefinitely, their server hosting will expire, and you will never hear from them again.

I know the above won't really bother you because you will see the signs ahead of time, but that one game you particularly liked will never be released- it will eventually suffer the same fate as some other small group-based monster games. You will know which game I am referring to when you are introduced to it. What I would like you to try is to go and post to them while they are planning and just agree on some of the things that sound good in a game to try and help them solidify a plan of action. They will probably wonder why you are interjecting on their public discussions, but there is absolutely nothing to lose here because they are fated to split in a few months if everything is left to run its course.

There will be an early game that you encounter that has a fantastic consecutive log-in reward system. Tell the devs of that game to add something to the back end that will permanently save the max consecutive log-in number of accounts, or at least something that can survive 3 server crashes that occur in a very short amount of time. If they don't have one they will be in a world of headaches, and they will depend on you to buffer the player rage against them.

Everything else in life eventually works itself out, so don't sweat it.

Last but not least, I regret to inform you that your older self is still a bit of a light troublemaker when it comes to notes written to yourself. Snape kills Dumbledore.

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dear me,


please tell your dad to NOT buy a computer... seriously you will become lazy
so please do it!

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